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She waits at least four dates to move beyond kissing, because when she does finally have sex with a guy, "there is no going back," Ellen and Sherrie remind her."You should continue to sleep with him if you have already.Otherwise, he will think you are spiteful."In addition to their books, Ellen and Sherrie provide courses and one-on-one coaching.Just 15 minutes on the phone with one of them will run you 0 (but you can purchase five minutes for if you just have a "very quick question")."You can see Britney Spears’ demise happened around the same time she proposed to Kevin Federline," she says.

Other services included on For the die-hard Rules Girls, there's a course for becoming a certified Rules Coach.

Vanessa puts a more flexible spin on Ellen and Sherrie's program.

For her, it boils down to creating healthy boundaries and establishing your own power in the relationship, right from the start.

Here, you'll find Rules like, "Wait for a guy to follow you on Twitter first," and, "Wait at least four hours to return a guy's first text." Chapters also include tips for weight loss ("an average-looking slender girl has a better chance of attracting a guy than a very pretty overweight girl") and a section titled "Be Cautious About Date Rape." "If you do decide to drink, be smart about it," say Ellen and Sherrie.

"On campus, you hear about date rape all too often — stories of girls who drank too much and suffered the consequences." may have evolved since 1995, but the Rules Girl looks the same: She is aloof and demure.