Dating a guy in a band

He will get close and then he'll start to pull away until he feels good about himself and then he will get close again.

If he pulls away and she pursues him, then he never gets the space he needs to miss her.

I've started reading your book, yet, one of the most powerful concepts in that book is men are like rubber bands.

A man tends to get very close to a woman until, at a certain point, he pulls away. Once he pulls away to the length of his rubber band, he'll spring back. When a man is feeling confident and knows what he wants, his testosterone builds up.

Do Not complain when your (insert holiday here) date gets cancelled because a show has been scheduled. They are the one’s buying the CDs and merch, not you, so let them have their time. Like your going to sleep in the back of a van and eat ramen for 4 months straight!?

If they really considered what it would involve on a day to basis would it still be an appealing prospect? Actively seeking out a relationship that has extra hurdles, difficulties and stresses is bonkers.

These humans have been put on a pedestal because of the songs they write/perform, but essentially they are the same as us….with a job that means that are away a large chunk of the year, are faced with constant temptation, and rarely have any money. Rather that embellish and enhance the idea that being band WAG is cool or glamorous, I want to give you truth. S I’m not saying you shouldn’t date someone in a band, but the goal should be finding someone you connect on a human level. I am very lucky I don’t have to worry about this in my current relationships, but in the past this has been a hellish thing to deal with .

I understand creative/successful/adored people can be sexy…once that fades you got to be happy with what’s left. Long distance relationships in general are a nightmare if you are in one that lacks trust.

If you find yourself in this situation, here are a few things to remember: 1. Even though we are comfortable with each other, i hav...

This cycle is a normal pattern for men -- he is not playing with you. While he's regaining his sense of self, maybe this would be a good time for you to regain yours as well. Dear John- I am a 30 year old single mom with a 2 year old. He was married for 14 years and is an AMAZING father.