Maybe you’re an excellent writer but struggle with describing yourself in words. Just let us know and we’ll write your profile in a format which may be used for both, the app and dating website.
In the vast and often intimidating world of online dating, your profile and photos are all you have to make a good first impression. With our help, your readers will be clicking “Contact”, “Save”, “Wink” and “Favorite”. There are no long questionnaires to complete or endless emails back and forth. While this is the age of electronic communications, relationships require back-to-basics verbal communication – so that is how we get to know you. We’ll take a look at your existing Internet Dating Profile and make recommendations. Hi Jodi, I just wanted to send you an e-mail and let you know that after only having my new profile and pictures up for a couple of weeks that I have met someone.
But when I started writing people’s online dating profiles for e-Cyrano.com, all that changed. By the end of our phone call, I’d pare down what they’d said into an enticing short story while marketing their date-ability in the process.
I’d make sure that every sentence focused on what the reader—your future boyfriend or girlfriend—could expect when dating you.
The end result would be a profile that read like a good article or book jacket instead of a dating ad, and when someone reached the end of it, they’d want to read more and contact the person.
As e-Cyrano’s founder, Evan Marc Katz, likes to say, “It’s simply our job to capture you, like a cameraman taking a photo.” So, why not revamp online dating profile? Then, figure out and write down what’s 2) Like with any writing, “show don’t tell,” and the more specific, the better. Evan is a big believer in “redefining the adjective.” Meaning, if you think you’re “funny” and state that you’re killing it in your stand-up comedy class, you write the funniest messages in birthday cards and you make everyone at work laugh, that’s OK.
In no time, all your sentences of stories will mesh together to tell your future partner how they’ll benefit from dating you versus just learning about common interests you may have.
Also, many dating coaches say that the fact that a guy was married shows he has the ability to commit. He said my profile read differently than other people’s and he asked me several questions referencing things I’d written in it.
I’d actually known him socially for years—but his profile was awful.
He had typed very little, and what he did type didn’t sound like the version of him that I knew in person.
I was about to give him some profile-writing tips when it hit me: if we were both on the site, we were obviously both single.